Archive for the ‘Religion’ Category

Uncomfortable with term ‘planned’ pregnancy

Tuesday, May 1st, 2007

It is hard for me to explain this because the term is so common now and I don’t know if any readers will understand, because it might be the only way they think about pregnancy these days: ‘planned’ or ‘unplanned’. I felt very uncomfortable today at the clinic when I was filling out forms and I was asked if this pregnancy is ‘planned’…I asked Luke and we said “yes”, but I wanted to say, “this pregnancy was hoped for, it was a gift from God!” We had been hoping for another baby since last summer. We can’t plan to have a baby a certain month and give birth nine months later though. It just doesn’t happen that way. Even when a woman is not breastfeeding and is in perfect health, the chances of conceiving are not 50-50.
Upon further reflection, it seems to me that this is yet another symptom of society’s rejecting God in everything. The words we use make important impressions on the way we think about things.
Was your baby planned? -is it bad if he wasn’t?
Does your baby sleep through the night? -is it bad if she doesn’t, if she wakes up every once in a while and nurses back to sleep?
Are you pro choice? -do you mean do I support the right to choose raising my baby with my husband, or giving him up for adoption…or do you mean something more sinister?
Do you work? -what does it mean if I don’t work for pay, but my work is infinitely more rewarding, my work is orienting our children toward God and Heaven?

Just a few things to think about…

Proofs of God’s existence

Friday, April 27th, 2007

From another conversation with a different agnostic/atheist…

from our catechism, “My Catholic Faith”
How do we know by our reason that God exists?
-We know by our reason that God exists, because of:
1. The existence of the world.
2. The order and harmony of the whole universe.
3. The testimony of our conscience.
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Open letter to an agnostic friend

Wednesday, April 25th, 2007

Dear friend,

Life is so short. It may seem to stretch far into the future, but you may notice the hours and days zooming by, and if you look back on the years you have lived, it might seem like a few blinks of an eye. I hope you don’t pass all of the rest of your time in agnostic uncertainty.

It sounds like it feels like freedom to you. Maybe you don’t remember, or you never even experienced the true freedom of Faith. The freedom that the world gives is so fleeting and so deceptive.

I told you that my religion is like a part of the air I breathe. Understand that it is not a suffocating part but a part that makes it much easier to take great, deep breaths. It frees my soul, relaxing my body. It is water fresh from the filter pitcher after the filter has been changed, the best. Sometimes understanding a new-to-me aspect of Faith is like a satisfying kick of a soccer ball (I also enjoy soccer). A good Confession is like the oh-so-satisfying feeling that comes after scrubbing and rubbing food off a dish, to see it clean again. Of course in reality is much better than all of these sensations, because it penetrates to my soul.

I hope with all my heart that one day you will again treasure the pearl of great price that you let fall from your hands.

With the love of one who embraces the convictions you once held,
your friendly neighborhood Catholic mama,
Corinne

“F” rating for “The Conception Chronicles”

Thursday, March 1st, 2007

I am barely on page 7 of this book by Patty Doyle Debano, Courtney Edgerton Menzel and Shelly Dicken Sutphen, and already I am offended and disgusted. The authors seem to assume that:
every woman is taking birth control
every childbearing-age couple is rich enough to own a house, and stupid enough to think a baby needs a whole new addition to the house
those couples only want two or three children (thank God for the Catholic couples who say that it gets easier with five and six children and more, with more helpers)
we want to hear normal marital sex referred to as “unprotected”
the view that God made our bodies perfect and birth control absolutely should not be used is for barefoot women in long skirts who mutter prayers and actually love God…like me

Some of it is okay The above really bothers me, with the occasional swear word – the authors represent the kind of people I want to keep my family away from. Thank God I also checked out the book that inspired “The Sound of Music”, called “The Trapp Family Singers”, a heartwarming tale written by a truly Catholic mother. That’s what I’m going to read in bed while Catherine sleeps!

Christians and communism

Sunday, January 14th, 2007

Nice article on TFP: here

Goodbye Fr. Wathen

Tuesday, November 7th, 2006

Thank you, Denise, for writing this great obituary and sharing your personal memories. (please see the bottom of this entry for a correction about feeneyism)

Prayers and Masses Needed for
Repose of Soul of Fr. James F. Wathen

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Intolerance

Sunday, November 5th, 2006

“America, it is said, is suffering from intolerance. It is not. It is suffering from tolerance of right and wrong, truth and error, virtue and evil, Christ and chaos. Our country is not nearly so much overrun with the bigoted as it is overrun with the broadminded….
“…In the face of this broadmindedness, what the world needs is intolerance.”
(Fulton Sheen’s “A Plea for Intolerance,” 1931)

Thank you, Dr. Droleskey.
http://christorchaos.com

No pants, please

Wednesday, September 13th, 2006

We ask that if you want to send us clothes, you do not send Corinne or Catherine pants, because we consider that to be immodest. Corinne very rarely wears sweatpants, and wears skirts or a dress the rest of the time. We usually dress Catherine in a dress or in a top and her skirt; it is harder with her because it is hard to find baby clothes that cover the diaper and keep going!
Deuteronomy 22:5: A woman shall not be clothed with man’s apparel, neither shall a man use woman’s apparel: for he that doeth these things is abominable before God.
In our culture men wear pants, so women should wear skirts (below the knee) or dresses instead.

Fifth Centenary of the Protestant Revolt

Tuesday, July 11th, 2006

Here is a depressing and enlightening article:
http://www.cfnews.org/2017.htm

News

Saturday, January 14th, 2006

Catherine Hannah Elizabeth was born on September 28th, 2005 with red hair and quite a cry! She weighs 14 pounds as of 1/13/06 and the lactation consultant said she’s doing a great job at nursing. She likes to make cute little noises and lift her head up while on her back to see her toes, and lift her head while on her stomach. If she would move her knees, she could crawl! Here’s a webpage about her: http://cora.dashjr.org/catherine.html

Here’s a new Catholic publication, The Four Marks:
http://thefourmarks.blogspot.com/

It’s named after the four marks of the one true church, the Catholic Church: one, holy, catholic and apostolic. The Catholic Church is one church, not split up into thousands of denominations like the Protestant churches. She is holy, having produced thousands of saints in her 2,000-year history. She is catholic (universal), spread out all over the world. She is apostolic, teaching the same things that Christ taught to His Apostles.

A good book that I recommend is “The Incorruptibles”, about Catholic saints whose corpses didn’t decompose. It has a short biography for each saint and details about how people found out that the corpses didn’t decompose. Sadly, many bodies were destroyed during the Protestant Revolt (Reformation) and the French Revolution. St. Catherine of Siena, my patron saint, is one of the saints who was blessed with this privilege.